This is from the next day. This is the body of an email that was passed between Michelle and me. I tried to use a different color font but she used the color I used. I think you should be able to tell who is saying what. My next post will be the same email with some thoughts I want to add. IâÂÂll let you see the email as is except for the email headers..
I anwered below
"Harris, Michael F wrote:
Replies to both emails.
I just wanted to tell you about the statement that was said about the pants thing to Sue yesterday.
I never made a statement to Sue about pants. I continued a group conversation with you. A conversation I would have continued regardless of who was there.
In front of Sue..
Why does it matter if it was her? If nothing is going on why does it matter?
That really wasn't fair to say that there especially in front of her.
How is it unfair? Why are spouses not allowed to hear about the group? What is going on that no one is allowed to know anything? Never mind donâÂÂt tell me. I seem to be out of the loop again. But thatâÂÂs OK; I prefer to not know whatâÂÂs going on.
Why do you always act like you are out of the loop? Unfair because I don't want to be in your world. You turn around every comment I make into preverted statements. And YOU think there is something going on, not me.
WeâÂÂve had many conversations where that has not been the case. It has only been conversation relating to the group where it has been that way.
Who was it that explained what âÂÂcoffeeâ meant? In fact for a while I did not know; again, I WAS out of the loop.
Because I get the feeling you are trying to tell her something more, but for some reason you didn't last night.
If I was going to tell her anything I would have done it last winter not last night. Something more? That assumes I told her something which I did not.
So you have something on Kevin! Something more, meant that you seemed to want to lean in and have a private conversation with her, without me hearing.
If I have something on Kevin I have kept it hidden then, havenâÂÂt I? I have no plans on telling her anything.
I don't want to be involved in any of that, especially if I am right about what you are trying to tell her...
How would you be involved if I said anything? As far as I know you donâÂÂt know what I would tell her. Anytime a conversation turned towards that I made sure I did NOT say anything to you about it. In fact what I would say would not involve the group at all.
Because I would be standing there. I do know what you what to tell her mike! And as for the statement above I hope you stay out of their marriage problems. Please do act like I'm stupid, you are very intelligent, but do not insult me by acting like you have no idea what is going on!
I donâÂÂt know what is going on; wait above you said it was I that suspected something not you. So does that mean you have proof of something? I have no proof of anything going on among any members of the group. It sounds like you know things and are keeping them to yourselves. That puts me out of the group and loop.
And if I were you I would rethink things, because you are entering a dark and unknown place, and from experience in this subject the person who tells is the person everyone hates!!!
I absolutely agree, but I have nothing to rethink now. As I said itâÂÂs too late for me to say anything.
So I take it you told her? Or maybe you had Lisa do it?
I said nothing. I canâÂÂt make Lisa do anything. If she says anything itâÂÂs because she wants too. When and how did she get involved in this anyway?
You know what I'm talking about! Remember I like being your and Lisa's friend, but the one thing I will not be involved in is THIS!!!!
In what? It sounds like there is a problem between 2 friends and you think I chose a side. Or should I say a different side? IâÂÂm staying out of it; itâÂÂs been a long time and I havenâÂÂt said anything. I didnâÂÂt say anything in December when the group had problems. Why would I now suddenly say something? Sometimes I have lunch at the Long John Silvers on Dick near George Urban, thatâÂÂs the same parking lot as the Walgreens Sue works at. I didnâÂÂt go and say anything those times, why now? Has someone done something to me to make me mad? IâÂÂm getting sick of this cloud over my head that at any time I may snap and let out all this information. I donâÂÂt know anything!!! I have no proof of anything; I will not accuse anyone without some proof. Anything that I do know has been from you telling me. From now on please do not give me that kind of information. I do not need nor want to have it.
Please stop acting like you are lonely, you are a need of a friend, cut it out! There is no cloud over nothing. Like I said before you are in the world of getting Kevin in trouble and trying to solve their marriage problems by telling Sue how bad he is and the other stuff, like her comment "the girlfriend on the side", do you think I didn't notice how you smerked and put your head down, then you leaned into her and talked with her for a moment while I was looking at Brandon's foot.. You also told her not to say too much in front of me! Some friend you are. I'm not stupid, MIke....
Acting lonely??? No, IâÂÂm not lonely.
If Kevin is doing nothing wrong, which as far as I know he is not, then he has nothing to worry about. If he is then he will be the one that gets himself in trouble, without my help. If their marriage is to the point that Sue is phishing for information about girlfriends then she has her own issues. Issues IâÂÂm sure she will try to resolve in her own way. Once again I have no plans to go to her and say anything.
If she looked you in the eye and asked a specific question that you know the answer to would you tell her the truth? Take as long as you want to think over your answer, it took me a while.
Are you ignoring my email from earlier???
No I had actual work today. Two system failures in Amherst and then I drove to Hamburg to replace parts. When I walked in they had a short power outage. Then I needed to call a location to check on a system reset while power died again at Hamburg. Then I had to make sure no systems crashed while IâÂÂm here. IâÂÂm also helping my boss with some month end paper work, tomorrow he goes to meeting for 2 days leaving me in charge. IâÂÂm trying to clean up my work so IâÂÂll be free the rest of the week.
I just also wanted to tell you I put two and two together after Dave came to class... He really doesn't like Kevin either, he told you to go ahead a tell Sue "whatever" you are supposed to tell her, and you said you can't... is it because you feel guilty or because I was there??????
I have nothing to feel guilty about. If I were to tell Sue anything a year later it would not be a good thing for anyone. Should I tell Dave not to speak to me as it may corrupt me? Or should I warn him that people are upset with him now that he is âÂÂinvolvedâÂÂ?
You can do whatever you want. I'm not upset with anyone.
Dave has nothing to do with anything, I brought him up because you too seem to be on the same get kevin in trouble page. I won't be on any page that involves that shit! I will stay away from those wars
As have I for the past year.
Why does Dave have nothing to do with anything? He was an original member of the group. He supposedly knows something, but he doesnâÂÂt get talked too. If he knows something what is stopping him from saying anything when ever he wants? I have no control over his actions.
Tell me the truth........
When have I lied??? you haven't, sorry you misunderstood that was a question.
